Beginners Pleasure Guide for Women
A Beginners Pleasure Guide for Women - Created by Lesley, the founder of Your Pleasure Toys.
Most of us never got the sex education we deserved. We learned how to avoid pregnancy - but not how to enjoy ourselves. No one talked about our bodies’ incredible capacity for pleasure, or how to communicate our needs without shame.
I know this because I lived it. For years, I thought I was “broken” for needing clitoral stimulation, and faked orgasms instead of voicing my needs. It wasn’t until I started truly exploring my body that everything changed.
That’s why I created the Pleasure Guide.
This empowering, sex-positive e-book is designed for women who want to:
✨ Understand their anatomy and how it really works
✨ Communicate clearly and confidently with partners
✨ Break free from shame and the pressure to “perform”
✨ Discover the joys of self-pleasure and mindful intimacy
✨ Close the orgasm gap—for good
Inside, you’ll find:
✅ Easy-to-understand anatomy (the real structure of the clitoris!)
✅ Tips for mindful, safe, and fun exploration
✅ Communication phrases to use with partners
✅ Foreplay ideas to spark full-body arousal
✅ A comprehensive guide to sex toys for all kinds of play
✅ Aftercare tips for deepening connection
✅ Honest, encouraging advice grounded in personal experience
This is not about “perfect sex.” It’s about real, consensual, shame-free pleasure on your terms.
For less than the cost of takeaway, you can invest in your sexual confidence for life.
Ready to own your pleasure? Download the Pleasure Guide today—and start exploring.
PLUS: Have questions? Need personal advice? Book a private 1:1 Zoom session for tailored recommendations, just £5 per 15 minutes.
You deserve pleasure. You deserve knowledge. And you deserve to feel empowered in your own body.
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