Pleasure Seekers: Here’s How to Use a Vibrator for the First Time

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We’re always happy to help, and love getting to know our visitors. We’re also all about educating those who seek it in order to enhance and embrace one’s sexuality.

Jumping in, the good news is that learning how to use a vibrator is fairly simple. The even better news? Experimenting with a vibrator is arguably one of the most fun you can have, solo or with a partner. Yay for sexual wellness products! 

So, for those who want to know how to use a vibrator, we’ve got you covered with a little vibrator cheat sheet! Yep, that’s right! Your one-stop article on how to reach new heights during your pleasure. 

So, let’s start with the basics…

Step by Step Guide on How to Use a Vibrator

Step by Step Guide on How to Use a Vibrator

Step One: Find Your Pleasure Product

Doing your research on various types of vibrators is like a sensual kind of foreplay. And if you’re unfamiliar with the different kinds of vibrators, no worries! Let us indulge you!

  • Clitoral stimulation vibrators: these kinds of vibrators target the clitoris, one of the most erotic zones. The clitoris has over 7,000 nerve endings, which makes it a hub for heavenly bliss. It’s also a fact that many women need clitoral stimulation in order to climax, making a clitoral vibrator an absolute winner. 
  • G-spot vibrators: G-spot vibrators target the G-spot, which can be found 2-3 inches inside of the vagina. It’s a spongy area that has the power to induce amazing orgasms.
  • Dual vibrators: A dual vibrator targets both the clitoris and the G-spot, often simultaneously. That means double the pleasure for those who seek absolute euphoria.
  • Wand massager vibrators: The wand massager vibrator is, still to this day, one of the most popular kinds of vibrators. It not only provides gentle stimulation on the genitals, but can also be used for body massages.

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  • Butt plug vibrators: Anal lovers and explorers might seek a butt plug vibrator to enhance their anal play. The trick to these vibrators is to take it slow, and work your way up to satisfaction, with lots of lube!
  • Prostate vibrators: The prostate is capable of intense and mind blowing orgasms. It’s a walnut-sized erogenous zone that surrounds the urethra. By using a prostate vibrator, you can target this pleasure spot, resulting in a whole lot of sexual bliss.
  • Penis ring vibrators: A penis ring vibrator is worn by him, and can be used to enhance solo play or penetrative sex. In the latter, the ring will provide both partners with teasing pleasure.

Once a vibrator has piqued your interest, you can go ahead and purchase it either online or in-store. The perks of buying a vibrator online is that you can take your time and gander through all the tantalising sex toys. You can also read all of the reviews for peace of mind.

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Step Two: Charge your Vibrator

Once your gorgeous pleasure product has arrived, you should charge it before use. Usually your toy will have a light that either turns on or flashes when charging, then turns off or stops flashing when it’s fully charged. Some pleasure products require batteries however, so take note of how your vibrator will gain its power.

Be sure to read the leaflet to understand how to charge your vibrator, when it’s charging, and when the charging is complete. This leaflet will also help you to understand how to use your vibrator for maximum results.

Step Three: Play With the Settings

Once your vibrator has finished charging, you can begin exploring. And even though you may be super excited to get started, take your time. You’ll learn how to use a vibrator by practicing soon enough!

We first recommend playing with the settings. Touch the buttons, feel the vibration levels and pulsation settings against your skin, and see which one feels good. Master these buttons and you’ll be able to enjoy your play time even more, without fumbling.

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Step Four: Give it a Gentle Whirl 

Now that you’re acquainted with your new toy, it’s time to learn how to use a vibrator in such a way that it brings you endless pleasure.  

We suggest trying the toy over your underwear at first, just to experience how it feels close to your genitals. This will also get you warmed up, increase arousal, and get the blood flowing to your erogenous zones

You could also use your vibrator on other intimate spots before going for gold. Areas like the nipples, perineum, and inner thigh can provide some delicious stimulation.

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Step Five: Get More Comfy

Once you feel relaxed and ready to explore your new pleasure product, you can begin targeting your intimate area without using your underwear as a barrier.

How to use a vibrator depends on which kind of toy you’ve purchased. It’s up to you to research and experiment with your pleasure product so that you’re getting the best bang for your buck. 

For example: if you’ve bought a clitoral suction vibrator, you can gently hover it over the clitoris to get a taste of what’s to come. And when you’re more comfortable, you could place it over the clit for more stimulation. 

A G-spot vibrator too should be used slowly, and perhaps with your chosen lube. It may feel better to insert the toy slowly before turning on the vibrations. 

As for anal toys, you’ll definitely want to take your time. You could start with an anal training pleasure kit, which will allow you to work your way up to bigger sizes at your own speed. And remember to be generous with your anal lube.

The takeaway is that you enjoy the ride instead of going harcore from the get-go. Especially if you’re a newbie who is learning about how to use a vibrator for the first time.

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Step Six: Try New Masturbation Techniques

Once you’ve become the master of your pleasure with your new beautiful vibrator, you can try out several different techniques that’ll enhance your bliss. 

For example, you could try laying on your stomach and grinding the toy, play in the bathtub if your sex toy is 100 percent waterproof, or engage in couples play if your pleasure product comes with a remote!

Step Seven: Make Pleasure a Priority

As you continue to go on your special sexual journey, you’ll start to become more in-tune with your body. You’ll learn about your different pleasure zones, what you like, and what stimulation you crave. And this is a fantastic thing! 

It not only means that you’ll enjoy more sexual pleasure during your solo masturbation routine, but it’ll also help your partner(s) as you guide them on the kind of sexual play you like.

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At the end of the day however, we hope that you have, or continue to, learn that your pleasure is a priority. It’s a basic need that we all deserve. Be sure to set aside time for yourself to sensually enjoy your body and all of the wonderful things it can do!

Do you feel more comfortable when it comes to how to use a vibrator? Now is the perfect time to indulge in new and exciting ways to receive pleasure! We wish you tons of fun with your new pleasure product, and of course… lots of happy playing!