6 Kinky Valentine's Day Ideas for a Spicy Evening You Won't Forget

While millions of people all over the world celebrate Valentine's Day in a romantic fashion, the lustful side sometimes gets overlooked. But when it comes to sexual wellness, romance and lust often go hand-in-hand!

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There's something entirely powerful about embracing your sexuality, trying new things, and feeling safe and confident enough with your lover to experiment with sexual acts that may just be outside of your regular routine.

With that, here's our go-to guide on how to do Valentine's Day right this year! With these 6 kinky Valentine's Day ideas, you'll be eating each other up (pun intended) with stars in your eyes, and left with a very satisfied sexual appetite. 

6 Kinky Valentine's Day Ideas

6 Kinky Valentine's Day Ideas

Before we dive into the good stuff, we thought we'd clarify exactly what kink is. For some, they hear the word 'kink' and they automatically conjure up images of individuals engaging in extreme or off-putting sexual acts. And while we all experience and derive pleasure from different things, kink need not be super intense or frightening.

Kink is merely doing things that are not considered 'vanilla'. They're sexual acts that are non-conventional or normative. You see? Nearly anything can be considered kink if it is "outside-of-the-box".

And actually, engaging in consensual kinky acts can bring partners closer together, enhancing their levels of trust and intimacy.

Ready to try something new or different this Valentine's Day?

Kinky Valentine's Day Sex Games

1. Kinky Valentine's Day Sex Games

The options are seemingly endless as there are so many sex games available today! From board games such as Monogamy, Domin8, and the range from Tease&Please, you can turn your average game night into something hot and steamy.

Alternatively, you could play other games that don't cost a penny. Try having an orgasm competition whereby you both engage in mutual masturbation to see who reaches orgasm first. Or, set yourself a timer and engage in anything and everything apart from penetration. See how long you can hold out without going in!

2. Watch Kinky Valentine's Day Ethical Porn

You don't need to watch porn films that are questionable, made for the male gaze, and degrading of women! There are so many ethical porn sites available today that you can have your cake and eat it too.

Ethical porn is great because it respects the rights of the performers, is guaranteed to have good working conditions for them, celebrates sexual diversity, and often has a combination of real-life sex and fantasy fulfilment. 

3. Have Kinky Valentine's Day Sex Somewhere New

Staycations are where it's at this Valentine's Day! You don't need to book an elaborate holiday somewhere exotic to feel the temperature rise! Why not consider a nice hotel in your city? When you change locations, it really is as good as holiday!

Or, you could even have sex somewhere new inside (or outside!) of your home. The kitchen floor, the sofa, the shower, or perhaps somewhere public might get your heart racing.

Kinky Valentine's Day Sex

4. Kinky Valentine's Day Fun with Sex Toys

Sex toys aren't as big of a taboo as they were before. And while many of us own a sex toy or two, you can never have enough! There are so many different styles of pleasure products, from couples sex toys to masturbation sleeves, clitoral suction stimulation, rabbit vibes, and more. 

Why not bring something new into your Valentine's Day tryst? Use it together or for a bit of show and tell... it'll surely amp up the sexual energy. 

5. Read or Write Kinky Valentine's Day Erotica

These days, we're all about instant gratification. We often look at porn or going straight for penetration in order to get aroused and to climax, and while that is fun, the art of foreplay is sincerely underrated.

Why not start your kinky Valentine's Day celebration early by writing out some erotica? Each partner can create a short story and then send it or read it to their partner. This will get the blood flowing and create an even bigger amount of lust.

6. Kinky Valentine's Day Tantric Yoga

Tantric yoga is an ancient spiritual practice that focuses on the connection between two people. And while many associate it with sex, it's actually a way in which to enhance and build relationships. This is not to say that one or both partners may not feel aroused with a rise in desire for one another.

To practice a basic form of tantric yoga, have one partner sit with their legs crossed and the other will sit on their lap, facing them. Partners will then embrace each other and synchronise their breath. In this position, deep eye contact is encouraged for even more intimacy. And then, of course, this could lead to all kinds of other activities and kinky sex. 

Kinky Valentine's Day Tantric Yoga

These 6 Valentine's Day ideas aren't so scary, now are they? In fact, we think you may just have a Valentine's Day that you'll never forget! Go on, get things hot and spicy with your lover on the biggest day of love and lust!